14 Things Narcissists Do When Their Ego is Bruised

1. Lash Out Verbally: They may use harsh words, criticisms, or demean others to restore their sense of superiority.

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Blame Shifting: Narcissists often deflect responsibility and blame others for their own shortcomings or failures .

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Play the Victim: They may portray themselves as the aggrieved party, often exaggerating harm done to them .

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Gaslighting: Manipulating others into questioning their own reality or sanity to regain control and the upper hand .

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Silent Treatment: Withdrawing and refusing to communicate is a common tactic to exert control and punish others .

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Overcompensating: They might engage in grandiose displays or make exaggerated claims about their successes .

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Seek Validation from Others: Narcissists may reach out to people who are likely to offer them praise and reassurance

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Hold Grudges: They often harbor resentments for a long time, especially against those they believe have injured their ego .

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